when you are in the struggle to progress, strive to love what you do and always live what you want because if you have the goal of reaching far in the progress of the activities you have achieved, strive to always seek what is beneficial than looking for things that hold you back and anyone who will make you who you want to be who is not you who you want to try and even if you refuse to look at the reason why they refuse to do it it's a waste of time