The practice of your own love is what builds inside you a landing place. | #MaxOnPals

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The practice of your own love is what builds inside you a landing place.

A space within which you can meet the love that is trying to greet you, and accept it, and hold it, and grow with it. Your own love is the beginning, and the end, of it all.

You are an ocean of unrealized potential. | #MaxOnPals

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You are an ocean of unrealized potential.

You cannot imagine how deep and how wide your capacity really is unless it’s been tested, until you’ve been moved beyond where you thought your limits were, and have had to redefine them.

Reason why we find it difficult to arrive to present moments. | #MaxOnPals

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Reason why we find it difficult to arrive to present moments.

When we find it too difficult to arrive fully into the present moment, it is almost always because the quiet is telling us something we are not yet ready to hear.

How to know the depth of your capacity. | #MaxOnPals

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How to know the depth of your capacity.

You cannot imagine how deep and how wide your capacity really is unless it’s been tested, until you’ve been moved beyond where you thought your limits were, and have had to redefine them.

Sexual harassment. | #MaxOnPals

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Sexual harassment.

Cases of sexual harassment by employers to the employees are rapidly increasing

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Albert Einstein Story

Almost all successful people encountered setbacks on their journey of success. So don't get discouraged when you encounter challenges.

Try as much as possible to speak positive words to your inner self. You can't succeed when your inner self is not on the same page with your external self.

Avoid pessimistic people, negative talks and anything that doesn't add value to your being.

© Maxwell Onyango

You run the risk of uncritically accepting the beliefs and standards of others (introjection), which actually may have nothing to do with you, but everything to do with them. Their insecurities, their fears, their self sabotaging behaviors.

When it's time to start over, you won't know you are at the start of a new beginning, because all it will feel like is an overwhelming end...it will feel like the world is crashing on you".

When you pay more attention to others than to yourself, over time, you buy into their ideas and images of who you are. What's worse, sometimes you think you know those images whereas they may be entirely different from what you think.

"When we feel most stuck, it's often because we are trying to decipher who we really are by piecing together images we assume others have of us" (Brianna Wiest).

Try as much as possible to speak positive words to your inner self. You can't succeed when your inner self is not on the same page with your external self.

Avoid pessimistic people, negative talks and anything that doesn't add value to your being.

Did you know that the mind is more inclined to finding what we direct our focus to? We begin to feel inspired when we change our attitude and shift our whole focus to the things we want.

It's not about not knowing what you really want to achieve in life always that stops you from barging forward but the fear or belief that you can't achieve that something. If you have envisioned it, you can achieve you only need to take a bold step and start it.

Shift the focus from negativity, fear of failure, not making to a positive energy and see how things will start working for you. Yes you can achieve.

© Maxwell Onyango

You'll know who your really friends are in a moment of crises, when you lose the job you fully rely on for survival. When you hit rock bottom, a good number of the so called friends will vanish from your life. You may not even hear them call or text- they'll see your call and ignore thinking you are seeking financial favors.

When you start a business, some of your friends will be your biggest support system while most will refuse to purchase your items or services fearing that if they do that you'll be better than them.

Someone who has experienced these things can testify. True friends are known in time of adversity and not when everything is going on well. I always tell people to review their inner circle.

© Maxwell Onyango

Loving someone and abusing him/her can't go hand in hand! Genuine love doesn't hurt, it's calm and allows you maintain your energy.

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© Maxwell Onyango

"When we feel most stuck, it's often because we are trying to decipher who we really are by piecing together images we assume others have of us" (Brianna Wiest).

When you pay more attention to others than to yourself, over time, you buy into their ideas and images of who you are. What's worse, sometimes you think you know those images whereas they may be entirely different from what you think.

There is thus no greater liberation than that from depending on others to define you. This is not to say you shouldn't obtain feedback from others regarding yourself. But there is a limit as to how far that should go.

Otherwise you run the risk of uncritically accepting the beliefs and standards of others (introjection), which actually may have nothing to do with you, but everything to do with them. Their insecurities, their fears, their self sabotaging behaviors.

How to end a destructive habit. | #MaxOnPals

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How to end a destructive habit.

When it's time to start over, you won't know you are at the start of a new beginning, because all it will feel like is an overwhelming end...it will feel like the world is crashing on you".

It feels really bad when a child's response to abuse is misinterpreted as being bewitched. This is the very reason I will not tire from creating awareness.

Parents who spend the day away from their children, if you realize your child is exhibiting bizarre behavior, before you blame witchcraft, take him to a professional psychologist or psychiatrist.

If you dont do it soon enough, you can entirely lose your child to full blown and irreversible psychosis. You will then live to decry the magnitude of 'witchcraft' used on him.

A real woman should mix smartness with modesty👏 | #MaxOnPals

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A real woman should mix smartness with modesty?

"A self-respecting woman,however, will mix smartness with modesty"

A mistake repeated is a mistake | #MaxOnPals

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A mistake repeated is a mistake

I did that mistake when I was 18 I had to admit am younger not ready for married and dating I went ahead to complete my education , when I started dating again whenever I see a potential I used to say am a mother of one along the way I realized some are loaded not ready to admit @33 marr