You dont have to be what other peaple want want you to be. you dont have to be interesting or agreeable or entertaining. you dont have to tone yourself down quiet your voice or hide your feelings. you dont have to be outgoing or spontaneous or sociable. you dont have to be thin or beautiful or anyones definition of attractive.you dont have to be anyone other than who you authentically are, and you sure as hell dont have to spend your time and energy trying to convince peaple that you're worth keeping around. The right peaple are going to recognize your worth. they are going to respect you , appreciate you ,and accept you, without forcing you to compromise who you are .